Allama ibn Al Jawzi رحمہ اللہ said:
”وينبغي للمرأة العاقلة إذا وجدت زوجاً صالحاً يلائمها أن تجتهد في مرضاته، وتجتنب كل ما يؤذيه، فإنها متى آذته، أو تعرضت لما يكرهه أوجب ذلك ملالته، وبقي ذلك في نفسه، فربما وجد فرصته فتركها أو آثر غيرها، فإنه قد يجد، وقد لا تجد هي“
When an Intelligent woman found a husband who's righteous and suitable according to her desires, then he should keep her happy and refrain herself from the things from which her husband gets irate or hurt because if she hurts this kind of man then he will take it to his heart and won't be able to bear that and whenever he gets a chance, he will divorce her or marry another wife because husband will get many wives but for the woman it's hard to find a suitable man who's according to her desires.
[Ahkam an Nisa La ibn Al Jawzi pg. 225]
-Translated from the Urdu post of Shaikh Kifayatullah Sanabili
